During the Advent and Christmas seasons, we think more than ever about giving time, talent and treasure to those in need. Giving is a beautiful act of love, and even the smallest acts of charity, often unseen, give glory to God as we seek to serve our neighbor.
From Luke 6:38: “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”
We don’t give with the expectation of receiving anything in return, or do we? There can be times when we give to someone and we know they are not in a place to respond with similar generosity. We are called to give anyway without counting the cost for it is in giving that we receive, our hearts are softened, and our attitudes and lives transformed.
This time of year, it may feel it is easier than normal to be more generous with others, but how do we carry that generosity into our everyday lives, every day of the year?
St. John Chrysostom said, “Give Christ the honor prescribed in his law by giving your riches to the poor. For God does not want golden vessels but golden hearts.”
As we stay close to Jesus in prayer and through the sacraments, and as we practice giving, our hearts are changed. In the lighthearted story of The Grinch Who Stole Christmas, we learn at the end of the story that his heart grew “three sizes that day,” transforming him from the grinch to a generous giver. In a way, that can happen to us when we practice giving — it may feel like our hearts are growing more open, joyful and free.
Over the years, with the help of the Holy Spirit, I’ve developed a better understanding of my gifts and talents so that I can use them to serve others. Whether it’s preparing dinner for someone, making an encouraging phone call, inviting someone to receive prayer, or offer financial assistance, there are plenty of ways to give that feel natural and bring me joy.
During my evening examen, I reflect on who I was called to help today and how did it go? Did I miss an opportunity, Jesus? What can I do tomorrow to be more generous? I also like to pray and reflect on the missed opportunities to learn why I held back so that I can grow in charity.
Another simple way of giving is to be a joyful welcomer. In the Rule of St. Benedict, 53:1, it says, “Let all guests be received as Christ.”
When I had my gym, it was important that I greeted and welcomed guests and new members enthusiastically and I introduced them to others so they’d feel comfortable. The art of welcoming is important in all situations and environments. This is something simple that we can all do.
St. Maximus the Confessor said, “A charitable mind is not displayed simply in giving money; it is manifested still more by personal service as well as by the communication of God’s word to others.”
I think about the inspiring example of Venerable Solanus Casey, a Capuchin priest who answered the door. It was said that he welcomed and comforted all and that each person who met him left with something spiritual or material.
Another example of giving is sharing our love of Christ and His word with others. When Jesus makes a way for us to speak of something spiritual, do we take that risk and do it? In this season, let us pray for boldness in speaking of our love of Jesus to those who might not know Him.
Lord, we pray for greater generosity and opportunities to put our faith into practice in simple and practical ways with gratitude for what you will do. In the words of Venerable Solanus Casey, “Have faith in God, shake off excessive worry and thank God ahead of time!”